Why is it so hard?

Why is so hard for some people to make a decision or to come back with an answer when asked to do something? At first I thought it was just to do with me but just lately I've seen things with others. I'm glad(kinda)it's not.

I appreciate that people are busy and need to find time to reply and that often the 'reply time' maybe the only break they are getting away from everything, but still a simple yes or no will do. Two small words. Even if the ting is happening in a months time, and you've asked weeks in advance, it still takes some that whole month to come back with a definate answer...and even then it's a faffy 'I'm still not sure'!

I admit I'm not the best decision maker in the world. I admit that sometimes I'm like it aswell, just leaving that extra time to see who else maybe going or to think about if whatever it is, is realy me. Nine times outta ten I try and get an answer back as quick as I can. I know what it's like to be left around waiting and wondering what's going on so try not let it happpen on my part.

On some occassions I know the people leaving it and leaving it are the first to start whinging when nobody has replied to them. That people have deserted them, nobody want's to do it or what they are planning will be a total disaster.

Again maybe I should just leave it and let it all go over my head. Maybe I should just chill out? But then how are you supposed to sort and arrange anything? Really don't wanna fall out with anyone over it. More often than not you get there eventually.

Maybe I should stop the asking and invites? Adds more stress than it's worth. The problem being when you have people saying 'we should see each other more', 'we should do more stuff', 'I bored of my life', 'wish I got invited out more', 'I wanna go out and have so fun' then you think yeah lets do summin. A week later it's why do I bother?